This entry is a day-dream. It is written to sound like it’s going on right now, but really, it’s just fantasy. A real day in my life is more like this.

I live in the countryside, far away from the stress and crowds of the big cities. My husband and I have a lovely house that is spacious and comfortable but not ostentatious. I have decorated it to make it cosy, inviting and stylish.

The house has several ecological features and is environmentally sound. It is well-insulated and has some solar panels on the roof. Our garden contains vegetables that are appropriate for the climate. There are fruit trees various bushes with berries. I harvest it all and save it for cooking.

Oh, I haven’t talked much about my (dream) husband yet. He is a great man. I love him to bits and admire him a lot. I trust him completely and he is so clever. He is taller than my 5’10” and has a great smile when he is happy. His looks are neither here nor there. I love him for who he is.

He is a man who has tons of integrity. He has work ethics and personal ethics. He does what he says he is going to do.

Since getting to know him I have lost my old attraction to doing ‘naughty’ things. I used to like having a spliff at parties, having a cigarette when I felt stressed, or shoplifting cheap stuff to avoid queuing to pay. But I want my husband to be proud of having me as a wife, so no more of any of that stuff!

When he touches me he makes me feel in a way that no man ever has. I didn’t use to care much for sex before him. It wasn’t difficult to keep to adhere to my (relatively) high moral standards with regards to sex as I simply wasn’t even tempted very often. But since I met my husband I have got quite into sex and often can’t wait for him to get home when he is away!
Is this the house? I loved the picture…
I know what type of clothes he finds attractive and sexy and I often choose those types of clothes on purpose. He is my husband and I can be as seductive as I want with him since it’s legit in the eyes of God…

My husband has plenty of interests that I don’t share. It’s mainly blokey stuff that I don’t mind him doing, but that I don’t want to participate in myself.

That’s great; it gives me time to do things outside of the relationship, which I like. I was never one of those ‘glued-to-my-man’ kind of woman. When he is off doing these things, I spend time with my female friends, look after myself or organise my house and work on some cool and somewhat profitable Web2 projects. I am able to make a bit of money on an online business. I have also become something of a Domestic Goddess and I find that very fulfilling.
Riding the bicycle on rural roads
We have really interesting neighbours in our area. Some are countryside people who have lived there all their lives. Others are old city-dwellers, who have come here seeking a different lifestyle.

Since moving here I have got to know some great people; I am now in a sewing circle, and sometimes help out with community matters. I also baby-sit and am part of a nice church. Finally I have time and energy for female friendship, and there are some really nice women around. A few times I have taught IT in the local school. It’s great to finally be part of a community.

My husband supports our family (currently only him and me, but guess what – I just found out that I am pregnant! Can’t wait to tell my husband, but how do I tell him and make it really special? )

I support him back in every way that I can, making sure that he has a nice home to relax in and that he gets healthy and tasty food to eat. Whenever he needs me I am there. When he doesn’t need me… I do something else! I listen to him and try to be as supportive as I can when he talks about his work. I am so proud of him, he is doing really well and I lack for nothing. I know he’ll make a very good father when the day comes.

We live near the water, something that means a lot to me. My husband is thinking of buying a boat and I can’t wait for it to happen so we can go boating. I don’t mind whether it will be a motor boat or a sailing yacht, either is great.
Down by the lake….
Our house is surrounded by trees and wildlife. There are some great trails around and I often go hiking, running or looking for berries and mushrooms.

I keep my bicycle for riding to the shops, but sometimes I drive; I have finally managed to get a driving licence thanks to the patience and support of my husband. Not a day too early. I can’t believe it took me so long to learn to drive; now it seems so easy! Our car is environmentally friendly.

Oh, I’ve got to go – my husband is on his way in with some wood that he’s been out chopping. We’ll lit a fire in the fireplace tonight – can’t wait to cuddle up in front of the fire and hear about what he’s been up to today. The sun is sinking below the horizon and another blessed day is coming to an end. What a charmed life I lead!

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